SGA - "The 'Toft' incident"
Aug. 12th, 2010 01:20 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I think this is pretty simple and you can break it down to this:
Toft manipulated people for her own entertainment.
Most people don't react kindly to finding out that they were manipulated without knowing about it.
It's not a fandom-exclusive reaction - it's pretty universal no matter the context.
It's not the context - it's the fact itself that matters.
If you find it ludicrous that some people feel hurt by Toft's manipulation now - then remember this the next time *you* feel bad about finding out you were manipulated.
Toft manipulated people for her own entertainment.
Most people don't react kindly to finding out that they were manipulated without knowing about it.
It's not a fandom-exclusive reaction - it's pretty universal no matter the context.
It's not the context - it's the fact itself that matters.
If you find it ludicrous that some people feel hurt by Toft's manipulation now - then remember this the next time *you* feel bad about finding out you were manipulated.